One of the challenges–and sometimes a perk–of getting older is that you realize that it’s time to let go of items and events.
Sometimes that’s pretty easy. You discover that what seemed so important at one point no longer holds the same meaning for you. Or you discover that you are tired of having so much “stuff” in the house to dust and vacuum around. You may find that the events that kept you so busy for so long now take up time that you want to use in other ways.
But sometimes it’s much more difficult.
Some “things” carry memories and sentiment that still mean a lot to you…memories of people now gone or events that changed your life.
Events may be ways you have been involved in ministry in some form and you wonder if there is anything that can fill the hole that will be left when you no longer provide it in the way you have over the years.
Sometimes you have no choice but to let go because you just don’t have the energy to keep up…or you begin dealing with health situations that require a change.
I’ve been providing music ministry by playing for church for almost 70 years now. It has not only been a ministry for others; it has also fed my soul. Recently part of that ministry has involved accompanying a choir as they provide ministry to various congregations in my faith tradition.
But I’ve now found that it’s time to let go. I no longer have the energy to keep up with all the choir activities. I have been dealing with some health situations over the past year that have made it not possible to sit on a backless organ bench for the length of a service, although I can still offer piano ministry by sitting in a chair rather than on a bench or stool…and I can still do some organ playing as long as I am careful with where and for how long.
That’s not been an easy decision. I’ve had to give myself permission to mourn the loss of something that has been important most of my life. But in making that decision, I have discovered that some other possibilities have opened up…including composition, something I was interested in many years ago but put to one side as life intervened.
Learning when it is time to let go can be one of the most challenging lessons of life. But seeing it not so much as a “have to” but instead as a way of allowing other doors to open can make it an easier decision to make.