It’s Monday morning as I’m writing this…the day that I often find myself thinking about posting something on my blog.
Sometimes that writing project is easy. A particular thought may have been swirling around in my mind for a while and finally has settled into words.
Other times it’s difficult. The thought may still be there–but the words haven’t formed yet. Then I just need to be patient.
Other times, it seems almost impossible. What on earth could I say that might be meaningful to anyone?!? What makes me think someone will read what I write?
This is one of those times. But I’m going to try.
I know that the questions that come when I’m not sure what to write come (at least partially) from my lack of self-confidence. I don’t remember being encouraged to strongly share my opinions or perspectives when I was younger. I wasn’t in an abusive situation at all; it was just that I grew up in a time when girls’ voices weren’t given as much value as those of boys. And it’s taken me a long time to believe that when someone asks me what I want to do, they really want to know.
Neither was I particularly encouraged in my desire to write. It was okay to play around with it–but writing couldn’t really provide a living for me.
Same thing with composing music. It wasn’t a “real” career choice.
I was a girl. My career choices (unspoken expectations) were nursing, teaching, or secretary. So I chose teaching.
I’m still working on finding the confidence to express my voice–and to believe that my words are important.
So as much as anything, what I want to say today is this:
Encourage your children’s dreams. They may not mean much to you…but they are important to your child. They are part of what makes them who they are. Give them an opportunity to try new things…to experiment. Who knows what they might find out about themselves? and what they might offer to the world?